Helping Children Make Sense of Their Emotions
The article explains that children often feel overwhelmed and unsure how to handle intense feelings, leading them to ask adults to remove the distress. It argues that parents can do more than distract or fix by helping kids interpret their thoughts and feelings rather than treating them as facts. The piece outlines seven lessons children can learn to navigate their inner lives.
"The piece, published October 10, 2026, by Tamar Chansky, Ph.D., and reviewed by Margaret Foley, focuses on parenting and children’s mental health. It says children who feel flooded by strong emotions often lack strategies and look to adults to end their discomfort. The author suggests parents can go beyond soothing or solving by helping children understand their inner experiences. The article frames this as preventive mental health and offers seven starting lessons."
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"Among those lessons: uncomfortable feelings are normal and can be navigated; children can be helped to separate themselves from passing thoughts; and adults can build a child’s sense of agency by asking what the child thinks about a thought. The article also describes zooming in to notice a thought and zooming out to check it, so children can choose more helpful perspectives."
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